Standards....where do they come from?

As a home sharer, I have been thinking about the standards we employ throughout our lives. We all have standards, like a standard to never smoke, or always write thank you notes, or always drive the speed limit, or never shop at Walmart,...etc. Take a minute, you will be able to identify some that you have. We all have them. Some of them are standards because they are imposed on us, like rules...thus we drive the speed limit. Some we acquire because it is what we inherited from parents or other role models. Some are wise standards for good reasons, like don't smoke since it is bad for your health. Some standards are put forth from God in His Word, those we should all follow...He knows what He is doing after all! As we look at the specific standards we have, we will find some that are just pure whims of our own creation. It is these standards that sometimes we have to remember not to impose on others. So I am learning to say, "It's okay, it is just my standard, and I shouldn't feel the need to impose my standard on anyone else." So the next time something rankles you, do a little assessment. Consider the reason for the standard; safety, sound reason, inherited habit, spoken to us by God or just because that's the way you like it. Remember others have their own standards, too. So as we home share we can learn how to compromise those standards, that I would call 'just cause I like it that way' standards, a bit to make the home shared a happy home.

Come on in!

When you take a few steps through our front door this is what you will find! A clean, but not completely tidy house. The people inside are Mike and Carol, their daughter Charissa and her husband Chad, and their son Jacob. You will find a mutt named Morgan and an old basset hound named Snoops. You will be welcomed warmly and spoken to honestly. Feel free to get a drink out of the fridge or a snack. We will try to remember to ask if you'd like something, but once you walk through our door you are part of the family (well, maybe not if you are the cable guy or pest control man!).

It's not a Martha Stewart Home...it's better! The guest room sheets are not ironed and wrinkle free. In fact they probably don't even match the comforter. The towels don't match either! But it will be a warm comfy bed to rest your head. The decorating isn't extravagant, it's more random and pieced together. The food may not be gourmet, but it is homemade with love.

We don't always get along, but like already stated we speak honestly and air out things that need airing out. This blog is about living together in community...we like call it "home sharing". We are 2 separate family living in the same home and sharing it. How do we do this you might ask...well, you have to read this blog to find out!

We hope you have enjoyed your stay. Come back again!